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10 Simple Ways to Spread the Optimism and Positive Energy Starting Today

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
Winston Churchill

Optimism.

It can turn a situation that looks negative or bleak into an opportunity or something to learn from.

It can replace the draining thoughts of pessimism with something that will give you more positive energy and enthusiasm again.

And it can help you to jump over obstacles, to keep moving when you fall or stumble and to not give up just because you have had a couple of temporary setbacks.

So not just adding more of it to your own life but to the lives of the people in your world too is a good idea.

Because you tend to get back what you give in the long run.

And in the short run, well, you get to enjoy the smiles when you spread that positive energy. Plus, you’ll boost your own self-esteem when you feel you are doing the right thing.

Here are 10 simple tips that can help you to get started with that.

1. Just be there for someone.

Listen and lend the optimistic and grounded perspective to someone in your life in need of it.

At first I find it best to just the let other person vent, to let him or her get issue at hand out into the light. So I am just there fully and listening.

Oftentimes this might be enough. Because just being there will help him or her to let the emotional tension out and to analyze the issue and to find a solution or to let it go.

If she or he gets stuck in negative thinking or in making a mountain out of a molehill then it can be helpful to add your own perspective to ground him or her and to help shift perspective on the situation.

To make him or her see that if you zoom out then things aren’t that bad really. And together the two of you might be able to find a solution or a first step that he or she can put into action.

2. Play positive music.

Uplifting music is of course a great way to boost your own mood and open up new perspectives again.

You can do the same for people around you. Put on a really positive song when you are hanging out. Or send them an uplifting playlist for Spotify or a similar program.

3. Take 30-60 seconds to give a genuine compliment.

Think about one thing that makes the other person tick. A small or bigger passion. Or something good that people too often take for granted about him or her.

And then give a compliment about that. It often means more than you might guess.

4. Smile.

A smile puts you and the people around you into a better and more relaxed headspace.

It works even when you don’t feel that much like smiling. If you like, do a brief experiment. Force a smile for 30 seconds or a minute if you are feeling a bit negative and see what happens to your mood.

5. Hide a secret note.

Take 60 seconds out of your day to write and hide a note with a compliment. Or some encouraging words. Or make it a note of thankfulness.

Hide it under their pillow, in the lunch box or wallet or perhaps the book he or she is reading at this time.

6. Help someone to wind down.

Being busy with work or school can over time add a lot of tension and stress. And that can certainly get in the way of optimistic and constructive thinking.

So help someone in your life to wind down. Suggest going for a picnic. Just laugh and perhaps go for swim in the nearby lake or ocean. Then lie together in silence on the blanket and watch the clouds go by for a while.

A break like this can do wonders for the mood and perspective for the both of you.

7. Cook or bring their favorite food.

If she’s having a bad day then cook her favorite meal. Or get her favorite takeout food. Or maybe just a small treat, like a piece of the chocolate or the special cupcake she loves the most.

8. Hug.

A hug is, perhaps often even more than a smile, something that can make someone feel a little better and a bit safer again. Use it when appropriate of course.

But don’t underestimate the effect of it and how that little nudge can turn someone’s thoughts around towards something brighter and more positive again.

9. Share what you’ve found or made.

It could delicious fruit that you’ve picked. Or the jam, cookies or bread you made. Or fish you’ve smoked or the beef you made jerky out of.

Such a simple but loving gift can really mean a lot and add positive energy to someone’s whole week or month.

10. Pay it forward.

If someone in your life adds a bit of optimism and positive energy to your life then don’t just return it somewhere down the line. Pay it forward to someone else too.

And together build a growing upward spiral of optimism, encouragement and kindness.

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  • NANSIMBI MARY GORRET

    I love this, thank you for the program i think its beneficial to my life and my fellows. the may the Lord Might grant you with more wisdom to keep your candle and for others burning in life.

  • I’d add – take your friend for a walk in nature. Breathing in fresh air while taking some exercise always seems to help shift perspective from internal stressors to the grander scheme of things.

  • rani

    Thank you Henrik for sharing this article 🙂
    Truly grateful, because sometimes I forgot how little thing does matter

    Have a wonderful week 🙂
    rani

  • Nwaizer

    Thank you Henrik, this is really motivating and encouraging. Keep up the good work, may God richly bless u.

  • Fabulously simple but effective and powerful tips. I could feel the sun shining brighter with each point. Have shared everywhere.

  • david

    oh My God, ur views are very helpfull. Am getting my faith being built over and over again. Thank you

  • Sameeksha

    Beautifully written!
    Absolutely true and full of love,affection,kindness and optimism!

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    In particular, the little note for declining, about “no thanks, I don’t want to improve my life” is particularly insulting. Just because I don’t want to add more to my already overloaded inbox doesn’t mean I don’t want to improve my life. Actually, I have a motivation and creativity blog of my own – that doesn’t have popups or ads of any kind.

    In any case, the other aspects of the site are great and you are to be commended. However, that one feature is likely to cause me not to return.

  • These are all great tips. I definitely have found that paying it forward gives me the best feeling of joy. To inspire others and make them smile or feel validated is wonderful. It’s really priceless to know that something you did help improve someone else’s life for the better.

  • Your tips are really great. positive thinking and happiness make your day happy energetic. you feel relaxed or give positive energy to others.

  • Anonymous

    NICE ARTICLE I FEEL POSTIVENESS AFTER READING IT

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