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		<title>By: Entreprise-Marketing.com</title>
		<link>http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/05/25/6-reasons-why-people-dont-change/comment-page-1/#comment-381005</link>
		<dc:creator>Entreprise-Marketing.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 22:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;6 raisons pourquoi les gens ne changent pas (Anglais)...&lt;/strong&gt;

Les autres, le manque de courage......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>6 raisons pourquoi les gens ne changent pas (Anglais)&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Les autres, le manque de courage&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Aja Trinidad - Taking a Look at Life</title>
		<link>http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/05/25/6-reasons-why-people-dont-change/comment-page-1/#comment-359130</link>
		<dc:creator>Aja Trinidad - Taking a Look at Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 17:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People often become so accustomed and attached to their normal state of being, that it becomes mentally and physically uncomfortable to change. I especially agree with your second point. 

I think it&#039;s important to directly ask &quot;what am I afraid of?&quot; and &quot;if I make this change, what&#039;s the worst thing that can happen to me?&quot; 

Confronting that fear head-on is a good first step in making that change happen.

Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People often become so accustomed and attached to their normal state of being, that it becomes mentally and physically uncomfortable to change. I especially agree with your second point. </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s important to directly ask &#8220;what am I afraid of?&#8221; and &#8220;if I make this change, what&#8217;s the worst thing that can happen to me?&#8221; </p>
<p>Confronting that fear head-on is a good first step in making that change happen.</p>
<p>Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 03:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree. This way of thinking is exactly what inspired my company. (www.mbtees.com) Our goal is to touch as many lives as possible in a POSITIVE way because we believe that a POSITIVE mindset inspires POSITIVE actions which have a positive effect on our community as a whole. The more lives we are able to touch in a POSITIVE way, the better our communities will become. We have a facebook fan page if you&#039;d like to join. 

Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree. This way of thinking is exactly what inspired my company. (www.mbtees.com) Our goal is to touch as many lives as possible in a POSITIVE way because we believe that a POSITIVE mindset inspires POSITIVE actions which have a positive effect on our community as a whole. The more lives we are able to touch in a POSITIVE way, the better our communities will become. We have a facebook fan page if you&#8217;d like to join. </p>
<p>Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: livesimplytolivewell</title>
		<link>http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/05/25/6-reasons-why-people-dont-change/comment-page-1/#comment-358366</link>
		<dc:creator>livesimplytolivewell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Change is hard.  When we decide that it hurts more to stay the same than to change - that&#039;s when most people decide to do something.  But I think that change should be regarded as a constant unfolding.  The more we commit to changing ourselves, the better the chance that it will happen.  I&#039;ve found one path through &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.naturalrhythms.org&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;conscious dance&lt;/a&gt;, which causes different ways of thinking through intentional movement.  There&#039;s just something about it that brings clarity, and clarity makes it easier to see the changes that are needed in life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Change is hard.  When we decide that it hurts more to stay the same than to change &#8211; that&#8217;s when most people decide to do something.  But I think that change should be regarded as a constant unfolding.  The more we commit to changing ourselves, the better the chance that it will happen.  I&#8217;ve found one path through <a href="http://www.naturalrhythms.org" rel="nofollow">conscious dance</a>, which causes different ways of thinking through intentional movement.  There&#8217;s just something about it that brings clarity, and clarity makes it easier to see the changes that are needed in life.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 14:14:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Dr Paul Dyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr Paul Dyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 02:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Point #1 is pretty much the whole enchilada.  As the old joke goes, &quot;How many psychologist does it take to change a light bulb?...just one, but the bulb must really want to change.&quot;  I&#039;ve seen so many people over the years, leaders, parents, spouses, caught up in a useless cycle of trying to &quot;change&quot; someone else.  It simply doesn&#039;t work.  As you point out, unless someone is willing to put in the hard effort of making change, and behavior change is almost always very difficult, it&#039;s a complete waste of time to invest time and emotion in the process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Point #1 is pretty much the whole enchilada.  As the old joke goes, &#8220;How many psychologist does it take to change a light bulb?&#8230;just one, but the bulb must really want to change.&#8221;  I&#8217;ve seen so many people over the years, leaders, parents, spouses, caught up in a useless cycle of trying to &#8220;change&#8221; someone else.  It simply doesn&#8217;t work.  As you point out, unless someone is willing to put in the hard effort of making change, and behavior change is almost always very difficult, it&#8217;s a complete waste of time to invest time and emotion in the process.</p>
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		<title>By: Top Ten Links Week 21 &#124; Librarian by Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 14:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Sherri Frost &#124; Self Hypnosis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherri Frost &#124; Self Hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 03:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#3 is something that most people ignore. The environment must be right for change and sometimes that means getting rid of stuff that doesn&#039;t mean anything to you anymore or brings back negative memories. It also may mean spending less time or even severing relationships with those that hold you backl.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#3 is something that most people ignore. The environment must be right for change and sometimes that means getting rid of stuff that doesn&#8217;t mean anything to you anymore or brings back negative memories. It also may mean spending less time or even severing relationships with those that hold you backl.</p>
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		<title>By: Dena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 18:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post.  I really enjoyed &amp; shared it with my readers in this week&#039;s Carousel - http://evolutionyou.net/carousel-05-28-10/

Thank you so much for sharing.

Cheers,
Dena</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post.  I really enjoyed &amp; shared it with my readers in this week&#8217;s Carousel &#8211; <a href="http://evolutionyou.net/carousel-05-28-10/" rel="nofollow">http://evolutionyou.net/carousel-05-28-10/</a></p>
<p>Thank you so much for sharing.</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Dena</p>
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