Gandhi’s Top 10 Fundamentals for Changing the World

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Gandhi’s Top 10 Fundamentals for Changing the World“You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.”

“The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problem.”

“If I had no sense of humor, I would long ago have committed suicide.”

Mahatma Gandhi needs no long introduction. Everyone knows about the man who lead the Indian people to independence from British rule in 1947.

So let’s just move on to some of my favourite tips from Mahatma Gandhi.

1. Change yourself.

“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”

“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world - that is the myth of the atomic age - as in being able to remake ourselves.”

If you change yourself you will change your world. If you change how you think then you will change how you feel and what actions you take. And so the world around you will change. Not only because you are now viewing your environment through new lenses of thoughts and emotions but also because the change within can allow you to take action in ways you wouldn’t have – or maybe even have thought about – while stuck in your old thought patterns.

And the problem with changing your outer world without changing yourself is that you will still be you when you reach that change you have strived for. You will still have your flaws, anger, negativity, self-sabotaging tendencies etc. intact.

And so in this new situation you will still not find what you hoped for since your mind is still seeping with that negative stuff. And if you get more without having some insight into and distance from your ego it may grow more powerful. Since your ego loves to divide things, to find enemies and to create separation it may start to try to create even more problems and conflicts in your life and world.

2. You are in control.

“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

What you feel and how you react to something is always up to you. There may be a “normal” or a common way to react to different things. But that’s mostly just all it is.

You can choose your own thoughts, reactions and emotions to pretty much everything. You don’t have to freak out, overreact of even react in a negative way. Perhaps not every time or instantly. Sometimes a knee-jerk reaction just goes off. Or an old thought habit kicks in.

And as you realize that no-one outside of yourself can actually control how you feel you can start to incorporate this thinking into your daily life and develop it as a thought habit. A habit that you can grow stronger and stronger over time. Doing this makes life a whole lot easier and more pleasurable.

3. Forgive and let it go.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”

“An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”

Fighting evil with evil won’t help anyone. And as said in the previous tip, you always choose how to react to something. When you can incorporate such a thought habit more and more into your life then you can react in a way that is more useful to you and others.

You realize that forgiving and letting go of the past will do you and the people in your world a great service. And spending your time in some negative memory won’t help you after you have learned the lessons you can learn from that experience. You’ll probably just cause yourself more suffering and paralyze yourself from taking action in this present moment.

If you don’t forgive then you let the past and another person to control how you feel. By forgiving you release yourself from those bonds. And then you can focus totally on, for instance, the next point.

4. Without action you aren’t going anywhere.

“An ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching.”

Without taking action very little will be done. However, taking action can be hard and difficult. There can be much inner resistance.

And so you may resort to preaching, as Gandhi says. Or reading and studying endlessly. And feeling like you are moving forward. But getting little or no practical results in real life.

So, to really get where you want to go and to really understand yourself and your world you need to practice. Books can mostly just bring you knowledge. You have to take action and translate that knowledge into results and understanding.

You can check out a few effective tips to overcome this problem in How to Take More Action: 9 Powerful Tips. Or you can move on to the next point for more on the best tip for taking more action that I have found so far.

5. Take care of this moment.

“I do not want to foresee the future. I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following.”

The best way that I have found to overcome the inner resistance that often stops us from taking action is to stay in the present as much as possible and to be accepting.

Why? Well, when you are in the present moment you don’t worry about the next moment that you can’t control anyway. And the resistance to action that comes from you imagining negative future consequences - or reflecting on past failures - of your actions loses its power. And so it becomes easier to both take action and to keep your focus on this moment and perform better.

Have a look at 8 Ways to Return to the Present Moment for tips on how quickly step into the now. And remember that reconnecting with and staying in the now is a mental habit - a sort of muscle - that you grow. Over time it becomes more powerful and makes it easier to slip into the present moment.

6. Everyone is human.

“I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps.”

“It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.”

When you start to make myths out of people – even though they may have produced extraordinary results – you run the risk of becoming disconnected from them. You can start to feel like you could never achieve similar things that they did because they are so very different. So it’s important to keep in mind that everyone is just a human being no matter who they are.

And I think it’s important to remember that we are all human and prone to make mistakes. Holding people to unreasonable standards will only create more unnecessary conflicts in your world and negativity within you.

It’s also important to remember this to avoid falling into the pretty useless habit of beating yourself up over mistakes that you have made. And instead be able to see with clarity where you went wrong and what you can learn from your mistake. And then try again.

7. Persist.

“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.”

Be persistent. In time the opposition around you will fade and fall away. And your inner resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies that want to hold you back and keep you like you have always been will grow weaker.

Find what you really like to do. Then you’ll find the inner motivation to keep going, going and going. You can also find a lot of useful tips on how keep your motivation up in How to Get Out of a Motivational Slump and 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself.

One reason Gandhi was so successful with his method of non-violence was because he and his followers were so persistent. They just didn’t give up.

Success or victory will seldom come as quickly as you would have liked it to. I think one of the reasons people don’t get what they want is simply because they give up too soon. The time they think an achievement will require isn’t the same amount of time it usually takes to achieve that goal. This faulty belief partly comes from the world we live in. A world full of magic pill solutions where advertising continually promises us that we can lose a lot of weight or earn a ton of money in just 30 days. You can read more about this in One Big Mistake a Whole Lot of People Make.

Finally, one useful tip to keep your persistence going is to listen to Gandhi’s third quote in this article and keep a sense of humor. It can lighten things up at the toughest of times.

8. See the good in people and help them.

I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won’t presume to probe into the faults of others.”

“Man becomes great exactly in the degree in which he works for the welfare of his fellow-men.”

“I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people.”

There is pretty much always something good in people. And things that may not be so good. But you can choose what things to focus on. And if you want improvement then focusing on the good in people is a useful choice. It also makes life easier for you as your world and relationships become more pleasant and positive.

And when you see the good in people it becomes easier to motivate yourself to be of service to them. By being of service to other people, by giving them value you not only make their lives better. Over time you tend to get what you give. And the people you help may feel more inclined to help other people. And so you, together, create an upward spiral of positive change that grows and becomes stronger.

By strengthening your social skills you can become a more influential person and make this upward spiral even stronger. A few articles that may provide you with useful advice in that department are Do You Make These 10 Mistakes in a Conversation? and Dale Carnegie’s Top 10 Tips for Improving Your Social Skills. Or you can just move on to the next tip.

9. Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self.

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

“Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.”

I think that one of the best tips for improving your social skills is to behave in a congruent manner and communicate in an authentic way. People seem to really like authentic communication. And there is much inner enjoyment to be found when your thoughts, words and actions are aligned. You feel powerful and good about yourself.

When words and thoughts are aligned then that shows through in your communication. Because now you have your voice tonality and body language – some say they are over 90 percent of communication – in alignment with your words.

With these channels in alignment people tend to really listen to what you’re saying. You are communicating without incongruency, mixed messages or perhaps a sort of phoniness.

Also, if your actions aren’t in alignment with what you’re communicating then you start to hurt your own belief in what you can do. And other people’s belief in you too.

10. Continue to grow and evolve.

”Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.”

You can pretty much always improve your skills, habits or re-evaluate your evaluations. You can gain deeper understanding of yourself and the world.

Sure, you may look inconsistent or like you don’t know what you are doing from time to time. You may have trouble to act congruently or to communicate authentically. But if you don’t then you will, as Gandhi says, drive yourself into a false position. A place where you try to uphold or cling to your old views to appear consistent while you realise within that something is wrong. It’s not a fun place to be. To choose to grow and evolve is a happier and more useful path to take.

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1 Asp.net Help May 16, 2008 at 8:53 pm

One of my favorites that I live by:

“I cannot teach you violence, as I do not myself believe in it. I can only teach you not to bow your heads before any one even at the cost of your life”

This always reminds me that there are those out there that will lie to your face and be fine with it. This is my mantra and I thought it would fit nicely in with the rest above.

Great post!

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2 ortucis May 17, 2008 at 12:26 am

“You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.”

I suspect that Gandhiji will not be a hit among most diggers after this considering their whoring of quate like “I’ve lost all faith in humanity.” line in every damn thread about some guy killing or raping or locking up another person. But then, most diggers ARE hunting for high digg count, so posting that overused melodramatic line everywhere is the best way to win that theoretical moolah.

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3 SANJAY SINGH May 17, 2008 at 6:19 am

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4 Mehr Khan May 19, 2008 at 4:35 am

Thank you for this great post!! =)

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5 Chris Obange May 19, 2008 at 5:32 pm

Gandhi lived a life of a great person. I have realised that you gain nothing by being bad to other people.

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6 bishop waledollar May 19, 2008 at 6:53 pm

The Point i love most is point 2 > ” I am in control” nobody can hurt me without my permission. we have the right to respond to situation not as the community wants us to react but the way we choose to react. I like this man Ghandi.

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7 John Ryan Elward May 20, 2008 at 7:43 am

Thanks for that! That is so inspirational and just what I needed right now.

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8 thabo snaar May 20, 2008 at 2:46 pm

motivation is for those who listen like me.i now know what to do and what to say to my word.thanx for this fruitful words

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9 brendantaylor May 22, 2008 at 2:30 am

thanx il read this again when im a bit down or need som inspiration…peace from ireland

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10 Shaunna May 22, 2008 at 7:43 pm

Someone wrote a comment saying it should be creating positivity instead of eliminating negativity. I have to disagree with that 100%. I think we all know how to create positivity but the negativity will always be there, and if you don’t start looking how your negative on yourself and where you slam yourself the most then you won’t know to start thinking positive in that area. I thought it was a perfect contribution to the 10 fundamentals, great article!

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11 Carolin May 23, 2008 at 10:34 am

Thanks for the great post.

Reading about Gandhi makes me believe in myself and humanity. I guess I should start everyday by reading somethine like this.

Thanks again
Carolin

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12 B Butler May 24, 2008 at 1:36 pm

WOW. This is exactly what I needed to see. I have not been focusing on the true issue of my circumstance, me… Thank you, great post.

B

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13 Kelly May 28, 2008 at 5:40 am

Simple rules of life that can make a world of a difference. I completely understand and agree with everything this article supports. Keep on spreading the love…

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14 Marisa June 3, 2008 at 12:42 am

Thanks a lot for writing this! Truly inspiring.

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15 Ama June 5, 2008 at 12:24 pm

i dont think there is any as good as this. I wish God could creat many more Ghandis. Thank you Daily Good

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16 Carl June 6, 2008 at 8:31 am

According to me the writer seems not to get the depth of Gandhi at all.
Hendrik Edberg refers to changing one’s thoughts.
Gandhi refers not to thought but to being the change.
My view: Changing thoughts without changing who changes the thoughts, from what place or motivation the changer is coming, is just moving around the furniture, not changing the foundation.
it is still trying to change from the outside in. Thoughts are still outside what you really are, you know that!
Hendrik often argues that following his interpretation will make life easier and more successful and others will listen to you more etc.
My view: This is to me still perpetuating the “ego” , personal self, or what ever is that we identify with instead of our true self.
Being authentic for any other reason than that it is the Truth, the only reality, is still not being authentic. Any pressure and you and me, we revert back to our assumed identity, safe and untrue as it may be.

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17 sir jorge June 7, 2008 at 1:30 am

i remember that Edward Norton’s character in Fight Club (the movie) wanted to fight Gandhi.

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18 truth June 9, 2008 at 9:37 am

i think you dont know the flipside of gandhi’s life.

>he caused the deaths of some great people.
>he supported the ‘cast system’ which suppressed the people economically and socially.
>he is not of indian origin and he belongs to a race which introduced “cast system”.

and finally,

Be careful with media,writers…etc

Most of things known to be true are not true in reality.

History is manipulated by writers ….etc

Try to find out the truth and spread it.

yoursfaithfully

A philanthropist

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19 pratapachandrak June 15, 2008 at 7:11 pm

I think it is a good article and am thinking of using it during talks with youth. However would you check up the quotes, I think one of them at least belong to Norman Vincent Peale.

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20 Scarebaby June 22, 2008 at 4:18 pm

If only more politicians today lived by these words. If only more PEOPLE lived by them. Gandhi also believed that good would always triumph over evil; I hope he is proven correct.

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21 Jay Moodley June 25, 2008 at 12:22 pm

Believe in Humanity…..

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22 Uma June 29, 2008 at 3:14 pm

In the context of modern scentific discoveries about the seer and the seen, the views expressed reflect just what goes on in your mind when you are reading these quotes,

and what you want to see in them you do,
if you are string and happy, then you take them positively,

so most people responding positively had the yearning to see positive, and that spark of positivity in them,

those who did not, i will only wish them well,
and hope that they can soon respond positively,

Truth is beautiful, even when it is ugly, for it is its integrity that elevates,
Who but Gandhiji could have written about Truth so well as in “My experiments with truth” ??
he realized his Niravana in Truth.

I stand by all Gandhi thought and wrote for the best of mankind. i try to follow his examples as far as i can.
thumbs up for this write-up that has set the blog going.
:-)

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23 Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map July 4, 2008 at 6:13 am

Great post and some of the comments here really got me thinking! Thanks for the inspiration!

Evelyn

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24 sundar.B July 21, 2008 at 10:19 pm

This wonderful post of yours has brought tears to my eyes and I really want to print it and read it everyday in the morning and hopefully that will cleanse my soul and make me a better and useful and productive human being. Keep up your excellent work. It is sad that a westerner should so proudly show these views of Gandhiji to the world which several Indian writers, speakers or public figures and celebrities are not doing. However let us hope for the best and look for the best in everything as Gandhiji so rightly said in all his wisdom.

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25 Jeff Rashedi July 31, 2008 at 7:13 pm

What a great thoughts! They are all sensible and practical if people care to make a better world.

Thanks.

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26 gagan bansal August 9, 2008 at 4:21 pm

good article . i had a topic ‘relevancy of gandhi in modern india’ for a declamation. it helped me alot

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27 Hi September 2, 2008 at 5:36 am

Thank you

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28 Les September 15, 2008 at 3:23 pm

Gandhi’s words have pure resonance that reminds me - I am not my thoughts or body. Only a second lapses between forgetting and remembering; yet, with remembering there is complete reorientation. The world is reborn each time I am reborn out of the mental into Source.

And while I often look outward with criticism in order to shore up this mental identity, he points to the truth as always present and already complete in itself, not needing shoring up.

Forgiveness is not about the ‘bad’ things people do, it’s about remembering that we all create suffering when we forget who we really are, when we separate ourselves. No matter how well intended, outcomes from this separation will likely cause more problems than they solve.

The wisdom of Gandhi reminds me that focusing outside for answers doesn’t work. With gratitude. L

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29 Guna September 16, 2008 at 1:03 pm

Gandhi the Great!
I change the life from this moment..Great and Excellent

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30 Dwai September 28, 2008 at 3:26 am

I read this today morning and it really helped me calm down.
Yes, gandhi never practiced realpolitik but brought out the best in men….. in huge numbers…by sheer inspiration…..dreams of freedom and then the dream came true.

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31 Dwai September 28, 2008 at 3:31 am

It is also sad that Gandhi was perhaps the first political leader in the modern era to be assassinated by religious fanatics.

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32 singh October 2, 2008 at 1:09 pm

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Gandhi, Father of India.In his autobiography My experiments with Truth Gandhi

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local school, marriage to Kasturba at the age of 13 and an intrinsic love for ‘truth’

and ‘duty’.Gandhi Jayanti is national holiday celebrated in India to mark the occasion

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33 Glenn Fernandes October 8, 2008 at 2:16 pm

I believe this is a very inspirational note from Gandhi, one of the greatest leaders of our time.

His actions always spoke louder than his words and I feel so proud that he was a leader from the same country I belong to - India.

I would like to add that everything in this article was inspirational to the effect and support of a noble mission I practice called RYTHM (Raise Yourself To Help Mankind)

I only know after his words of wisdom it’s going to be an even more amazing journey.

Glenn Fernandes
glennvfernandes@gmail.com

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34 Claudia November 15, 2008 at 8:22 pm

This article is very inspiring. I know of very many people who would use those tips and it would really help them. I know that those will be really useful for people who are going into rehabilitation for drug or alcohol addiction.

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35 Secret Cash Plan November 16, 2008 at 7:10 am

Great post. Very inspirational. These ideas/tactics should be used every day with only promise coming your way. This definitely lifted my spirits today. Thank You.

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36 Chris (Toothless Budgie) January 7, 2009 at 12:16 am

The first point reminds me of the story of a man who was so fed up with the way other people made him feel that he decided to become a hermit. On his first night away from civilisation he stumbled in the dark, knocked over his water jug and swore loudly. That was when he reaslised that HE had to change if his life was ever going to get better!

A truly inspirational post. Keep them coming!

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37 Top Internet Blog March 4, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Gandhi was great founder of Free India

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38 Amezstudio April 24, 2009 at 5:44 am

Gandhi is a LEADER in non violence and a man who has wisdom in making the world a Better place with happiness,So many Years after his death also the whole world admires his humble leadership and he plays a big role model to walk in his steps to have a better world.Every one should learn so much from him.He Brought a Smiles Indian people from the rule of British.Hats off sir.Excellent Article.Thank you for sharing this Article.
Sam

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39 magesh April 30, 2009 at 9:27 pm

nice post….
these kind of useful articles are needed in todays world
people need to be aware of these kinda things…

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40 Marie May 3, 2009 at 1:31 pm

I love the one that says “Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self.” We need to be ourselves with confidence.

Thanks for a great article!

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41 saurabh shah May 4, 2009 at 7:54 am

nice post ! … really inspired thru this .. :)

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42 Meghana May 27, 2009 at 7:32 am

Hello Nice post..

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43 Andrew V June 21, 2009 at 12:34 am

He is so right!
Unfortunately just reading this great words will not change your nature. I came to this after 8 years studying kabbalah - I don’t know how much is still ahead.

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44 ali khan June 21, 2009 at 8:12 am

Great post. These thoughts remind us of the universal human values that are forgotten from time to time.

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45 Sandy June 21, 2009 at 9:36 am

Mahatma Gandhi ROCKS!!

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46 Dharma V. June 25, 2009 at 12:13 am

Thanks for a great post!

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