Comments on: Focus Outward to Win Friends and Improve your People Skills

By: Jane

Jane — Tue, 01 May 2007 23:30:05 +0000

Focusing outward is typically a good thing. Can’t argue with that. And I believe that the problem with needing validation starts in childhood and so by adulthood has become so ingrained that it operates as a habit, unconsciously and automatically. That can be hard to shift. Awareness is a good first step.

By: eeman

eeman — Sun, 15 Apr 2007 06:32:22 +0000

these things are hard to follow anywhys i think its better to be yourself and comment about other peoples interest

By: Henrik Edberg

Henrik Edberg — Sun, 08 Apr 2007 19:25:13 +0000

You are right, marcia. That was pretty much what I was thinking. Thank you for your comment.

By: marcia siegel

marcia siegel — Sat, 07 Apr 2007 15:05:51 +0000

approval and agreement. the two A’s that are not really of great value as far as an A goes. i think what you are expressing is to communicate and relate to someone. not seek agreement and approval and think that is a communication. a very deep thought to ponder.
i too have expressed this and have asked people to re evaluate the way they relate to.

By: Henrik Edberg

Henrik Edberg — Thu, 05 Apr 2007 21:14:12 +0000

Thank you Annie. IÂ´ve had a good day, hope youÂ´ve had one too.

By: Loving Annie

Loving Annie — Thu, 05 Apr 2007 14:02:21 +0000

Very good post and awarenesses, Henrik ! Hope you hve a good Thursday !