How to Brighten Your Morning (and Whole Day): 7 Powerful Habits

How to Brighten Your Morning (and Whole Day): 7 Powerful Habits

“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
Marcus Aurelius

The alarm bell goes off. You slowly open your eyes.

A new day lies before you.

A day of unexplored potential and opportunities. How can you make it more likely to become a positive and good day?

Today I’d like to simply share 7 habits that I have used to make my mornings and whole days better.

1. Have a reminder on your bedside table.

How will you start your very first moments and minutes of the day?

One good way to get off to a good start is to have a note, a reminder on your bedside table that will be one of the first things you see after you have woken up.

A couple of suggestions for what to write down on your note:

A low bar for happiness.

Write down: “Today I will set a low bar for happiness”. Read it and try to keep it in mind during the day.

This one helps me to appreciate things more.

The food, my work, the weather, the people and the small events of the day becomes not everyday stuff but something I feel happy to have. The small things or what may be something one takes for granted becomes something I now often pause for a moment or two to take in and appreciate.

Your top 3 priorities in life right now.

To keep your attention in the right place it is essential to remind yourself every day of what is truly most important.

So what is most important for you this year? A project at work? Your family? Improving your social life? Your blog, photography, soccer or debt?

Think about it and reduce what is important in your life to the top 3 most important priorities.

2. Give one genuine compliment.

Giving one genuine compliment to your partner, a family member, friend or co-worker during your morning can not only lift his or her day but also make yours a little brighter and happier.

So tap into what you can appreciate about a person in your life. Then tell him or her that.

If you can, make it something that may be a bit unexpected and something that person hasn’t heard a hundred times before.

For example, a compliment about her great taste in music or his wonderful way with animals may be more appreciated and powerful than a compliment about looks and other more superficial stuff.

3. Positive information intake over breakfast.

Instead of watching the news or reading the papers and getting a negative and perhaps depressing start to your day do something that will inspire you.

  • Read one or a couple of new posts from positive, funny and uplifting blogs or websites.
  • Read a chapter from a book that inspires you (or a handful of quotes that motivate you).
  • Or simply have a fun and warm conversation with the people around your kitchen table.

4. Start your workday with your most important task of the day.

If you do then the rest of the day will feel lighter and easier. You will feel better about yourself and more confident as you move on to other tasks.

If you have trouble getting started with the most important task then just make a deal with yourself to work on it for 3 minutes. Then you can stop if you like.

But you may not want to once you have gotten started. That seems to be the case for me most of the time.

Getting started is most often the hardest part. So make that part easier for yourself.

5. Go slow.

When I go a bit slower it becomes easier to fully focus, to keep the stress down and I most often do a better job with something the first time around.

I work with more clarity and I do not get stuck in doing busy work very often.

It may feel like I’m not getting enough done but at the end of the day I usually get more quality work done than if I tried to maintain a high speed throughout the day.

Partly because the lower stress levels keeps my mind fresh and energy up even through the last few afternoon hours of the workday.

Try going a bit slower. See how it works for you.

6. Work out.

Often mentioned and for a good reason. It has many positive benefits.

I workout several times a week and by doing so I boost my energy, inner doubts and tensions lessen, I feel more decisive and my mind becomes more optimistic.

And all of that makes the rest of the day lighter.

I highly recommend doing some kind of exercise in the morning. If you can’t go to a gym or work out from home early in the day then maybe you can walk or bicycle to work or school.

7. Do the right thing in some small or big way.

This one boosts your self-esteem. It puts a spring in your step and it at least makes me feel happier.

So do what you deep down think is the right thing.

A few examples that may resonate with you:

  • Perform a random act of kindness. Hold up the door or point out the way for someone who seems lost.
  • Help someone out practically or just by listening.
  • Get started with putting a dent in the most important challenge in your life.

Build upon just a small step, a small thing if you like. Start building an upward spiral of positivity and good feelings within. And then take further steps upward.

Towards what you know you really want and you know are the right things for you in your life.

 

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Henrik Edberg is the creator of the Positivity Blog and has written weekly articles here since 2006. He has a bachelor’s degree in journalism from the University of Gothenburg and has been featured on Lifehacker, HuffPost and Paulo Coelho’s blog. Click here to learn more…

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  • Lydia

    These are great reminders! When I was younger, it seemed that these reminders didn’t matter, because it was so easy to remain positive and carefree. But as life goes on, I think it becomes harder for people, myself included, to “keep on the sunny side.” These types of tips have really become part of my daily life now, but I truly had to make an effort to have them be habits and not just nice things to read in the moment. Thank you for what you do, Henrik…it certainly matters and genuinely helps!

  • foram

    Thanks for the very practical information. It is really helpful.

  • Harish

    Thank you for your words.Lately thinking too much about my future and got stressed out. I guess one goal at a time will set me to go forth and attain my dreams.Thanks again.

  • Inspiring lost with some great ideas. I will be giving a few s go.

  • Neel

    Very nice advices Love the way u tell them. Will certainly follow them . Thankyou Sir :-D

  • Bisrat from Ethiopia

    Dear Henrik,
    I thank you for your commitment in posting different articles on being positive thinker in our daily life. You have changed my entire way of life. God bless you.

  • “When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
    Marcus Aurelius

    As the last of the ‘5 good emperors’ and easily one of the best stoic philosophers of his time, I’m so glad to see Aurelius’ name mentioned on a blog meant for introspection leading to the broader benefit for a fuller life. Every single point you made is exactly right on target, and we could all stand to be better people from the moment we open our eyes til the moment we shut them at night.

  • Leaving notes is a good idea Henrik. They are simple reminders for how to start and maintain a positive, mental attitude. I still do this for myself.

  • Thank you for all these wonderful suggestions. Often we get started off with a bad day the second we wake up so having a reminder note next to your bed is a great idea. I also couldn’t agree more when you say that getting started is one of the hardest tasks. I find myself struggling to get started quite often but once I do get started I struggle to stop before the project is complete and that is definitely a great feeling once it is done! I didn’t look at it as being motivational to start your morning off with a big project, great idea. I also like to start my morning with a work out, not only do I then get it out of the way and not think about it the rest of the day but it wakes me up and makes me feel better about my day. Finding time to do this in the morning is a great recommendation!

  • Miree Tommasini

    This article is great Henrik! Full of really practical ways for people to start the day happier :) Thanks for being such a happiness ambassador!

  • Su

    Hi Sir,
    Thanks you so much Sir.
    I will follow this Six way.
    I believe it can change my thoughts and lifestyle .
    I want to say Thanks again.

    Best Regards,
    Su

  • Zoe

    Thank you for this, I’m definitely going to make a little sign to put next to my alarm clock, I find it so hard to get up and just lie there for ages. I also want to work out but I find actually telling myself to do it really difficult and I just don’t do it. Do you have any advice. Thank you.

    http://zoeshappylife.blogspot.co.uk/2014/10/a-step-in-right-direction.html

  • Hi Henrik! this is such a great article! definitely will try #1 and #5. A simple reminder is really a good idea to keep your mind fresh and positive everyday. I do find it’s a bit hard to do #6, maybe it’s because i’m not used to it yet, but definitely will start it soon. Thank you for your suggestions :)

  • smith

    You write good stuff, and I start by appericiating you by doing the right thing in a small or big way….u r really inspiring millions and billions……. May god bless u with happiness…and my request to u to keep doing this job.